So I’m talking with with a relative born in the early 50′s – the present day urban community would endearingly call him an “old head”. He made me “hip” – that always cracks me up – to the idea that men actually have strategic locations to find and pick up the “good women”. Unknown to us, men aren’t looking for marriage in the bar, in the club or even in the pews on Sunday – I KNOW! I had a hard time with that one too! So where do they go looking for great women?