So I’m talking with with a relative born in the early 50′s – the present day urban community would endearingly call him an “old head”. He made me “hip” – that always cracks me up – to the idea that men actually have strategic locations to find and pick up the “good women”. Unknown to us, men aren’t looking for marriage in the bar, in the club or even in the pews on Sunday – I KNOW! I had a hard time with that one too! So where do they go looking for great women?
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The term “good woman/good man” always cracks me up. I think we need to better define the root before we put adjectives in the front. But I think that when it comes to finding a woman we don’t proactively look in any particular place, but it’s more so about her actions.. If we meet a woman from the church, but konw for a fact that Saturday night she was dropping it on the floor (I’m not judging) then we’re not going to see her as the “church girl” and more so the club girl. Or if we see her in the library, but notice her from always being drunk and loud at the bar, then we see her as the “bar hopping girl..” in short, the location doesn’t always mean something, but if there is frequency in that location and her actions are synonymous with that location, then we will view her as that. To each their own. My2Cents